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Unforced Rhythms of Grace

Sara Randall | FEB 9

And I heard you can walk on water

And my mind’s a raging sea

Would you come

And calm the storm within me

Would you walk the waves with me

Jesus Jesus by CCV Music

There are seasons when we feel worn down—close to the edge of ourselves under the accumulation of small, everyday stressors. The nervous system absorbs it all, like endless waves breaking down a shoreline.

Anxiety and agitation isn’t new to the human experience. Neither is the impulse to control every detail. But bearing down, gripping tighter, and waiting for it to pass rarely brings relief. More often, it creates more strain—and an inner critique of not measuring up.

Jesus speaks directly into this kind of weariness.

Matthew 11:28 (MSG)
“Are you tired? Worn out?…Come to me…I’ll show you how to take a real rest…Learn the unforced rhythms of grace…and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

This is an invitation to let go. To unlearn the habit of gritting through.

Jesus’ life was not calm by circumstance—traumatic birth, critical scrutiny, misunderstanding, relational and political unrest, betrayal, and deep suffering. Yet, he remained grounded and gentle. Patient and compassionate. Not hurried. Not panicked. Not comparing. Present. Anchored in the Father.

There is something deeply regulating in the phrase: unforced rhythms.

Rather than resisting the highs and lows of the waves, we are invited to slow down and breathe in rhythm with the God that breathes life into all things—a simple, embodied way of receiving God’s perspective.

Slowing down and breathing is a first step toward listening.

In yoga, we practice this with the whole body.

Softening the jaw.
Deepening the inhale.
Lengthening the exhale.
Releasing held muscle tension.

We embody a steady rhythm that doesn’t come from bracing—but from allowing.

These small movements become prayers in the body.

Breath by breath we return to a more natural rhythm. Over time, the waves are not eroding the nervous system—they are reshaping it.

The Spirit of Jesus is not distant from our daily stress. He meets us in it. God is not waiting for you to clean up and polish your life, He wants to enter into it with you, as it is.  His strength is present in our weakness. We are not meant to regulate apart from God; the invitation is into co-regulation with Him. Bring your mess. He can handle it.

If it feels invitational, meet Jesus on your mat.

Just as small stressors accumulate, small practices of rest accumulate too.

It’s less about intensity, and more about consistency.

As my teacher would say, “Practice little and often”. Five minutes a day can be more transformative than an hour once a week.

Below are a few practices you can do at home.

It begins with intention. At its simplest, yoga means awareness.

Try these practices to help with emotional regulation, improve nervous system resilience, boost immunity, and bolster recovery.

Yoga Snacks for This Week

1. Coherent Breathing Ratio (Inhale : Exhale Ratio)
Begin with 3:3 (inhale for 3, exhale for 3).  Gradually lengthen by increasing one breath count only as high as it feels easeful and nourishing. When you reach your comfortable capacity, gently work your way back down.

Let it feel smooth like a wave, not strained.

2. Hold a Posture, Breathe and Lengthen
Choose your favorite posture. Set a timer for 1-3 minutes. Breathe intentionally.

3. Reflection
As you move through each day, build a habit of noticing.
In those moments of awareness, ask yourself:
Do I feel bound or free?
Journal what you notice.  Pay attention to patterns—physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

Sara Randall | FEB 9

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